Hi, there is a person in Anocris who came into a tribe I made the other day. He said that he was a boy, he was 19 years old, and he was gay (idk why he had to tell me that, but I just took it in stride)
I start playing Anocris, and he joins the tribe I made. I'm writing a message saying that it was very nice to meet him, that I was glad to see him in the tribe, etc. when he says, "hello, motherfucker, how does your fucking brain wake up today?" okay, I thought. maybe he's just a little upset about something today. This kind of thing happens a few times, he keeps on calling me a motherfucker. I ask him to stop over five times, same reaction from him. I ask nicely, firmly, warning him multiple times..he kept on calling me a motherfucker and other offensive names, so I kicked him out of the tribe and joined another tribe, planning on staying away from him for a little while. Well fast forward, I decide to give him another chance, he asks to come into the tribe I'm in, I ask the tribe leader, he gets in. So far so good. He starts cussing for no apparent reason and says that it's because he's gay. Well, I'm not sure about you all out there but I've met some pretty nice gay people out there, and they didn't have to cuss every five seconds...anyway I just let it slide. But then he keeps on cussing. The tribe members ask him to stop, I ask him to stop in private chat, he calls me a motherfucker, I ask him to stop (yet again) he posts it in tribe chat saying "that's bullshit, you're crazy (my username)" I tried to stay calm the entire time but this guy is really getting on my nerves. Eventually the tribe leader puts a stop to it but the person keeps on cussing and disrespecting other people's boundaries so he is kicked out. We have a huge brawl in world chat a few days later in which he called out someone on their sexuality and yet again calls me a motherfucker. I've tried asking him to stop, but all I get are sarcastic replies. Maybe he's having a hard time, i don't know, and maybe it's just because he thinks that he's oh so superior, but it's really driving me off of my rocker. The reason I'm telling all of this is because I want to join a tribe that most of my online friends are in, but he's also in that tribe. I know that he's going to disrespect me again if I do join, so I asked him in private messaging if he would want to call a "truce". The only thing he said, "silence, please" I am trying not to be unreasonable because no one likes a moody teenager (haha) but this guy is really giving me a hard time and I'm not sure what to do...I've got anger issues so that also isn't helping the situation; we've fought a few times but he still calls me names no matter how many times or how many different ways I try to ask him to stop. Politely, firmly, warning, pleading, begging, no-nonsense- I've done them all, nothing's working. I'd really like to rejoin my friends tribe but if he's in there I'm afraid I'll ruin it for other tribe members because as soon as we talk we just go at each other's throats haha if you know what I mean